For knowing the risk of leaving , there is a possibility of him losing you FOREVER.

I am going to jump on my soapbox for just a few minutes, Please Excuse If I Offend Anyone. I apologize in advance.

This statement was prompted by a conversation with my cousin, discussing “WHY DO BAD MEN,LEAVE GOOD WOMAN”. As we discussed our past relationships, we discovered that we have always been on the losing end of all of our relationships.

I believe when a man truly loves you, him walking out and leaving you would terrify him for the fact that he know someone else has the potential to take their place. I know personally, I never walk away until I am ready. Whether it is getting knocked down several times, I will not leave until I feel like I have tried and done everything possible to make things work.

I know I am the QUEEN OF SECOND AND THIRD CHANCES. I never seem to get if they left the first time, nine times out of ten the are going to leave again. Every boyfriend that I have had that left me, has later come back and say that they MISS ME and Never Knew What They Had Until It Was Gone.

I fall for it every time, not thinking why are they truly coming back now after all this time? A lot of times men walk away because you are not that significant to them at all. I understand sometimes needing space but 8 months to five years that is not a break, you just have not found another woman that equals up to what you were offering and they trying to come back after all that time. They hit a dry and lonely spell where they reminisce and decide to seek you out.

I am not saying that you should not give Second Chances but really consider the reasoning on how and why they left the first time? Sometimes we can let past memories over take the rational thinking.